Long photo-related but mostly off-topic rant to follow
My partner just moved from an iPhone 14 Pro Max to an iPhone 15 Plus, because while she is happy to get USB-C to match every other goddamned thing in the house (jokingly, the same charger as her vape), the Pro Max doesn't come in pink, and she wanted a pink phone. I am not joking about this. She was given so much value on the trade-in that she has a credit on her cell service now.
Anyway, I have learned some things.
She had about 135,000 photos on her old phone. These are the photos of her ENTIRE LIFE, starting from the time that she was three years old. This by itself is absolute insanity to me, because even the oldest images of her are 5MP and approximately DVD-quality video. It's all documented to that degree.
About 25,000 of the photos she has are photos are from her past adult modeling work. Not necessarily photos she took herself, but photos that are stored on her phone and ONLY her phone. This is the biggest reason she has avoided cloud photo storage. I didn't even know these photos existed until a few days ago. And herein lies the problem:
Apple does not appear to allow mobile devices to show albums as they exist on a phone when the phone is connected to either a Windows or Apple PC, and it also does not show photos in a coherent filesystem through a data cable connection unless they were taken with the current device. I have laptops with Thunderbolt 3 ports. I have Thunderbolt 3 cables. I have a couple Macs sitting around. Neither of them are exactly current M-whatever models, but the newer one is a 2018 Mac Mini, which is upgraded to Sonoma.
When I view the "filesystem" presented to any sort of personal computer by the phone, it only displays the photos taken on the old phone, and not any other photos that might reside on it. This is pretty easy to figure out in her case, since nearly all the photos she's taken with the phone have wound up being the usual selfies and pictures of food. Notably missing are, you know, the other 130,000 photos. They're just not presented if you open Finder or File Explorer. They also don't SEEM to follow any sane folder organization. We could find photos taken the same night in three different folders.
Apple's current instructions for itunes/Windows say that version 12.12 should have device control, including the ability to view photos and albums. This does not appear to be correct. The icon to control the phone that way never appears on a Windows 10 device connected over Thunderbolt.
It DOES show up on a Mac, but the Mac still cannot view the photos in their album organization unless both the Mac and the phone are signed in to an Apple ID.
Users do not have to make an Apple ID to use a Mac, any more than Windows users have to make a Microsoft ID. Moreover, Nadia has never used more than the basic 5GB of backup on her Apple ID. But the Albums from the phone didn't show up until she made an account using her Apple ID on that Mac, nor could we see some of the folders that had been saved from other devices. Basically, even WITH the Apple Account, not all her pictures showed up.
The intention had originally been to make sure that everything was backed up locally, since she's never been willing to pay Apple for cloud storage. Turns out that most of the photos on her phone just aren't exposed through the visible filesystem when the phone is connected to a computer.
Wanna know what finally fucking worked?
Google Photos. Google Photos could see all the pictures, all 135,000 of them.
I have a 5TB Google Workspace account. I made a shared album and she moved all her pictures into THAT. It only took us about 14 hours to figure out that solution, plus another four or so hours of waiting for the all clear that the sync finished, but it was honestly the only thing that actually fully addressed the issue without buying a 2TB iCloud plan that she didn't want in the first place and which I am sure is the reason the experience is so broken to begin with.
This HAS made Nadia kinda-sorta see the light about iOS, but since her phone is still absolutely a status symbol for her, she still thinks it was all worth it. I think the goddamned things and every single human being who uses them should be ejected into orbit.