Yeah, that would be me...but I told this woman that I want to marry her, buy a house together, and have her children...and I'm pretty sure I meant it. So, I guess, no more "bad man" for me.
Umm, not to be cynical or anything
, but didn't you say the same to that secretary of yours a few years back? And, what goes around comes around, what's good for the goose, is good...
You dump one woman, cause you don't know why, but it just isn't a thrill anymore. So in another, oh I dunno, 6-mo. -2yr, either you'll dumb this woman(or is she the 'girl' with the husband, am I confused?), or better yet she'll dump you and you'll get to see the 'other' side of your actions.
Given your history, I wouldn't be succuming to the pangs of love (more likely lust) and telling her you want to have children with her, seeing how you have just started this cheating adulterous relationship. Don't you think living with her for a few months is in order before getting her pregers?
You're only 'pretty sure', damn man, think about what you're getting yourself into. Sounds irresponsible at best. Can you see yourself in court telling some old bag of a conservative female judge, for the decision about child support for that 'accident', that you were 'pretty sure' at the time! Yeah, the 'thrill' of having 'feelings' in a new relationship, umm how much longer before the thrill is gone? Wait until your brain chemical addiction to love (lust) subsides in a few years, then think clearly about whether or not you want to marry this woman or that one over there at the party, who's going to get a divorce, lol.
This sounds worse than FS, and his wife who didn't tell him that she wasn't taking birth control pills when he thought she was, and then the guy was bitter about the child born out of that deceit?