computer rigs that dwarf those of almost any other forum members except maybe for Mercutio.
But you can't afford a decent kitchen. Go figure.
I don't have much of an investment in SSDs. I have three i7s and two machines with high-end graphics cards. The only thing I really do have is an excessive number of really big hard drives.
And kitchens really are expensive. He is not lying about that. But I don't think cabinets are hard to make and everything in a kitchen is something a motivated person could do for themselves.
My father's hobby was home improvement. He'd come home from work every night and go to work on whatever room he happened to have torn apart. That was his idea of relaxation. The funny thing about it was, he'd never quite finish any of his projects, because there would be "one last step" that depended on getting some other project done, so the whole time I was growing up, our house was always torn up. A few months before my parents moved, my father finished all the projects, and their house was transformed. It had always gotten progressively better over time, but the net effect of finishing everything was an improvement by an order of magnitude.
My dad didn't actually know how to do any of these things before he started. He bought a bunch of "Time-Life" Home Repair books about 25 years ago and spent days or weeks planning each project. He did all the work himself so costs for more or less everything were pretty reasonable.
Anyway, ddrueding could be starting down that same path. In which case his wife has my sympathies.