I'm afraid to ask why you need 20 tabs open at one time.
Not at all what you're thinking, probably. My browser is where my ADHD really shows. I'm using FF 34. It's the king of lesser RAM usage, in my experience. As of right now, I have 23 tabs open, using 467.0MB RAM according to Task Manager. With Chrome I'm pretty sure I'd be using almost 2 GB.
I'm currently figuring out the RAM. Opened up my back panel to find I only have 1 DIMM slot, but at this point it's not surprising, even though Task Manager reports two. Maybe I need to crack open the top panel and screw around with the keyboard? I remember the Latitude had a slot hiding under the keyboard, but it's just so thin on this thing that I doubt there's anything of note under there. I'll check, though, and hopefully I do have two slots. My max either way is 8 GB, but with 2 slots I can do dual channel and the upgrade will be far cheaper.
My laptop's bottom panel snaps clean out when you take out the screws. I like it. I get access to everything at once. But on the other hand, if I crack the thing I'm screwed.
I have to agree with Coug -- I have it far better than many, and I'm actively working on improving my situation. I should be out on my own sometime next year, which, considering I'll still be a minor (I'll be attending Ferris State University -- hopefully) will be really fun to figure out. They might waive the whole "having to stay on campus the first year" because I'll be a minor, but even if they do I'll still be staying on campus. I love my family, really I do, but it's about time I finally get some time to myself in which I can complete my assignments in peace. I'd honestly rather stay in a dorm than at home, is that bad? Not only that, but campus is over an hour away from home, and I am not going to make that commute twice a day without an income to support it.
I'll most likely be getting a part time job around then, and while I will be prioritizing food and toiletries, I will also be socking some away in preparation for Christmas shopping/emergencies. I'll just take some out of that if I have to. Although I think that once I've taken this to its max it'll take me the rest of the way through my education without an issue.